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The Truth Behind the Foster Care Crisis and What We Can Do About It for mentors for program directors Apr 13, 2025

Every year, thousands of children enter the foster care system, many of them having experienced significant trauma, neglect, or abuse. The goal is simple: provide them with a safe, loving environment ...

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How to Use Meaningful Moments Cards to Build Bonds and Life Skills for mentors for program directors Feb 18, 2025

Connection and trust are the cornerstones of any mentoring relationship, especially when working with children who have experienced complex trauma. That’s why we created Meaningful Moments Cards—a too...

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Trauma of Omission: What Wasn't There Hurts the Most for mentors for program directors Oct 16, 2024

When we think of trauma, we often envision intense, shocking events—things that happen to someone, like abuse, violence, or a catastrophic loss. But for many children, the most profound wounds are not...

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Big Ts and little ts - its all trauma for mentors for program directors Mar 12, 2024

In the world of trauma, you may hear the terms Big T and little T referring to traumatic events in one’s life. Recently, there has been a movement away from categorizing trauma into big and little eve...

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Mentors put the P in PACES for mentors for program directors Feb 12, 2024

We can’t talk about complex trauma or children in foster care without discussing the effects of adverse childhood experiences (ACES). 

ACES have a profound impact on human development, shaping both p...

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4 Ways Mentorship is Therapeutic for Children with Complex Trauma Needs for mentors for program directors Jan 17, 2024

As a young social worker, I often thought I wasn’t doing enough. 

As a post-adoption case manager, I got kids on my caseload after an adoptive parent reached out for help. Many times parents felt as ...

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5 Reasons Why Children with Complex Trauma Lie for mentors for parents for program directors Nov 21, 2023

One behavioral response to childhood trauma is lying. Many foster and adoptive parents grapple with this challenge, seeking understanding and effective interventions.

For children with complex trauma...

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Get $25,000 to Launch your Stable Moments Program for program directors May 18, 2023

We know more people would launch a Stable Moments program if they had the funding.

And our #1 goal is to equip as many organizations as possible to serve children in foster care WHILE giving the comm...

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Get Your Stable Moments Program Funded for program directors Nov 01, 2022

It's that time of year again...time when you really need to be planning your end-of-year campaign. And guess what? I wrote it for you!!!

That's right. I firmly believe that community members are resp...

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Structured BUT Flexible for mentors for parents for program directors Oct 26, 2022

Being both flexible and structured are big parts of the Stable Moments model…but wait, how can you be flexible AND structured?

The truth is, kids, and most humans need a whole bunch of things…but...

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My Response to Hate Mail for mentors for parents for program directors Sep 07, 2022

I got my first hate mail, attacking the Stable Moments model saying we're causing more trauma by allowing people who aren't credentialed to work with kids with complex trauma needs.

In this episo...

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Healed People Heal People for mentors for program directors Jul 20, 2022

A ping of anxiety shot through her chest. She could feel anger expanding from the pit of her stomach. She was pissed and felt like she wasted her time and was pretty certain she would be quitting her ...

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